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BOOK 1 · SPENCE HARRIS

The Father Wound.

Healing when your dad didn't show up.

Some men become fathers before they ever heal from being sons. This book is the language most men have been waiting their whole life for — honest, specific, and written from the middle of the work.

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PHYSICAL BOOKPowerful. Practical. Life changing.
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You see your father. Your child sees you. Heal what you carry. Change what you pass on. — The Father Wound by Spence Harris
BEFORE YOU DECIDE · A WORD FROM SPENCE

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Why I wrote this book, what it helped me see about my own father, and how to know if it's for you.

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A conversation with Spence Harris
Why I Wrote The Father Wound
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✓Digital workbook — exercises for every chapter
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✓Audiobook — stream or download
✓Digital workbook — exercises for every chapter
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✓Spiral workbook — mailed to your door
✓Bonus: Listen Before You Walk In™
✓Bonus: Emergency Mindset Audios™
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FROM READERS

It names what they couldn't.

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I've read a lot of books about manhood. This is the first one that read me back. Chapter four — I heard my father's voice come out of my own mouth, and for the first time I knew what to do with it.
MARCUS T.Father of two
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I bought it for my husband. He sat in the car outside our house for an hour reading it before he came in. That night he talked to me about his dad for the first time in eleven years of marriage.
DENISE R.Wife and mother
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I picked it up three weeks before my son was born. I didn't want to hand him what I was carrying. This book showed me I don't have to.
ANDRE W.First-time father
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His father was never around. I read it first so I could understand what my son was carrying — then I gave it to him. He underlined half of chapter one.
TASHA M.Mother of a 17-year-old son
A father kneels, hand on his heart, holding his young son's hand — About this book: “You can't heal what you won't name.”

The Father Wound doesn't disappear because you grew up. It just learns to wear a suit. It moves out of childhood and into the rooms of your adult life — your anger, your relationships, your parenting, your relationship with yourself.

Most men are carrying something they have never been given the language to name. This book is that language. Not theory. Not therapy. A man's honest account of what the wound actually does — and what it takes to finally put it down.

WHAT'S INSIDE

Eleven chapters. No filler.

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Introduction: The Day His Father Taught Him NothingHe was fifteen, and it was the first whole day he would ever spend with his father.
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The Chair You Still CarryNine years old, and he'd already learned that some people just don't come back for you.
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What a Father Was Supposed to BeHe paid for the cleats and drove to every game — and his son spent a season looking for a face that never looked up.
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The Question That Moved InThe office, the title, the praise — and still checking his phone at 9 PM for four words from his father.
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When the Wound Starts Talking Through YouWhat came out of his mouth didn't sound like him. It sounded exactly like his father.
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The Silent Sabotage of ShameHis daughter lit up when she found his face in the crowd. He couldn't let himself feel a second of it.
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The Debt You Keep Trying to CollectHe drove two hours for an apology twenty years overdue. His father talked about the weather.
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The Conversation You Have—or the One You Release1:12 AM. The same four sentences, typed and deleted three times.
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The Long Game of RebuildingThe first night his son barely looked at him. Six weeks later — no fear at all. That's the whole miracle.
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The Man Who Kneels DownA Sunday afternoon with no agenda, and a son talking about nothing.
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The Man Still BecomingHe knelt down after losing his temper and owned it — without asking his son to make him feel better.
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Becoming the Father You Once NeededThe sequence a four-year-old knows by heart — and the father who wrote a new one.
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Epilogue: The Boy in the ChairBack to the boy we started with — and the question that day handed him.
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QUESTIONS

Before you start.

When do I get access?+

Immediately. Your eBook, audiobook and digital workbook unlock in your Kajabi library the moment you check out.

What is the difference between the Hero and Identity bundles?+

The Hero bundle includes one physical book: the softcover edition. The Identity bundle includes two physical books: the premium hardcover edition and a spiral workbook, both mailed to your door, plus two bonus digital courses. Both bundles include the eBook, audiobook and digital workbook.

How long does the physical book take to arrive?+

Physical copies are printed and shipped by Lulu and typically arrive within 5–7 business days.

Where do I listen to the audiobook?+

Inside your Kajabi library — stream every chapter or download it to listen offline, in the car, at the gym, anywhere.

Do I need the book to use the workbook?+

The workbook follows the book chapter by chapter, so they work best together. The Hero bundle pairs the softcover book with the digital workbook. The Identity bundle pairs the hardcover book with a printed spiral workbook, and includes the digital workbook too.

Can I buy it for someone else?+

Yes. Many readers buy it for a husband, son, brother or friend. Enter their shipping address at checkout for the physical copy.

What is your refund policy?+

Physical books and workbooks are printed to order, so they are final sale and yours to keep. Refunds cover the digital portion of your bundle, within 30 days of purchase. Digital bundle: full refund. Hero bundle: $27 refund for the digital portion, and you keep the softcover book. Identity bundle: $40 refund, which covers the $27 digital portion and the two bonus digital courses, and you keep the hardcover book and the spiral workbook. If a physical copy arrives damaged or misprinted, contact us within 14 days for a free replacement.

Is this a replacement for therapy?+

No. This is one man's honest account and a practical path forward — not clinical treatment. If you're in crisis, please reach out to a licensed professional.

FAITH. FATHERHOOD. BROTHERHOOD.

From Hustle to Home. This is Fatherhood, Rebuilt.

Spence Harris, The Daddiez Coach
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