Spence HarrisTHE DADDIEZ COACH™
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YOUR PRESENCE TYPEWhich of the five presence types is keeping you in the room but out of reach.
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YOUR CHAPTERThe exact chapter written for where you are right now.
THE FIVE PRESENCE TYPES

One of these is yours.

TYPE 1The Provider

The pattern: You provide everything financially. Your family has what they need. But they don’t have you — not really.

TYPE 2The Performer

The pattern: You show up for the big moments. But the ordinary days — the ones that build the relationship — go unnoticed.

TYPE 3The Avoider

The pattern: Emotional conversations shut you down. You’re not absent. You’re just never fully there.

TYPE 4The Distracted Father

The pattern: You love your children. You’re just never all the way there. Your body is home. Your mind is everywhere else.

TYPE 5The Walking Wounded

The pattern: You want to be present. But your own unresolved wounds are the wall between you and your child.

Five questions tell you exactly which one.

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Spence Harris, The Daddiez Coach
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The most dangerous father isn't always the absent one. Sometimes it's the present one who thinks provision is enough.
SPENCE HARRISThe Daddiez Coach™ · Author of Present But Missing
THE PRESENCE ASSESSMENT

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