Spence Harris | The Daddiez Coach™
Still His Dad
Fatherhood After the Death of a Child
Death does not erase fatherhood. You are still their dad — and the love you prepared to give still has somewhere to go. Ten chapters written from inside the loss, not from a safe distance above it.
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About This Book
I am not writing this as a grief expert. I am writing it as Maverick James’ dad. I had thirteen days with my son. I learned to love him in days. I accepted being a boy dad in hours. And then I sat at a stop sign outside a hospital and became a father with nowhere left to put any of it.
This book is not a memoir and it is not a clinical textbook. It is ten chapters that open inside real rooms — the kitchen, the hospital parking lot, the birthday party one week later — and then turn toward what a grieving father actually needs: language, Scripture, one honest next step, and permission he may not have given himself yet.
“You do not have to move on from your child to learn how to live forward.”
What’s Inside
Chapter 1 — You Are Still His Dad
Who am I now that my child is gone? Death does not erase fatherhood.
Chapter 3 — The Day the World Broke
What do I do with the moment that never left me?
Chapter 4 — The Father Nobody Sees Grieving
Why does it feel like everybody needs me, but nobody sees me?
Chapter 7 — God, Where Were You?
Can I still come to God when I am angry with Him? No cheap answers.
Chapter 8 — What Do I Do With All This Love?
Where does a father put love when his child is gone? The heart of the book.
Ten chapters in all — closing with Chapter 10, Carry Their Name Into Tomorrow.
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